The Old Gray Man

Advice on living to a ripe old age by being over prepared and under the radar.

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Live your life without being unduly hassled.

Be a Gray Man.

What does that mean? A Gray Man is a person who does not seek attention when they are going about their life. Indeed, they try to avoid it. The Gray Man is prepared for the unexpected, but does not broadcast that fact. An individual who lives their best life, while taking responsibility for themselves and those who are important to them. Someone whose anonymity gives them options and flexibility when life goes “high and right”.

Life is complicated enough.

Why make it worse?

 

These days, it seems like everyone with an agenda seeks to advance it by finding someone to be offended by for any number of reasons. Once they find that “special someone”, too often that person becomes a target for angry people to harass, pester, threaten, vandalize, injure, and even kill. In the moment, most people do not care what their attacker’s perspective is, they just want the attack to end so that they can go on about their lives.

This only gets worse the older we get.

Why not just go unnoticed in the first place? Avoiding the problems altogether and evading them if they start heading your way can be fairly simple. That is what we are trying to help you do here at The Old Gray Man. In doing so, we will also help ensure you are prepared to either get away if trouble still finds you or, in those rare extreme cases, force your way to safety.

 
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Video Training and Reviews

Unnoticed does not mean unprepared. Far from it. Being unremarkable but as prepared as possible provides the most options. The main thrust here is to provide informative videos on a variety of relevant subjects, no matter where you are in life.

 
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Blog

I provide written articles on a variety of subjects relevant to living a Gray Man lifestyle.

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Who is this guy?

About The Old Gray Man

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I may not know it all and I may not make it all, but “I know a guy” and have some suggestions.

Recommendations and Partners

“Experience is the most brutal of teachers but you learn, my God, do you learn.”

C.S. Lewis

 
Attorney Andrew BrancaFounder, Law of Self Defense

Attorney Andrew Branca

Founder, Law of Self Defense

“The best way to defend yourself is to avoid conflict. Being a gray man can help ensure you stay safe by leaving you options on how and when to act. Nobody knows how to do this better than The Old Gray Man.”



 
 
Rich BrownCWO3, USMC (Ret.)Co-Founder of The American Warrior Society

Rich Brown

CWO3, USMC (Ret.)

Co-Founder of The American Warrior Society

“I have known The Old Gray Man for years. He is a chameleon, equally relaxed and competent within a group of operators or amongst a crowd of legislators. Collegial and composed, he is a rare breed, mixing intellectual curiosity with down-to-earth pragmatism. Follow him and you will learn to mitigate personal risk while being quietly dangerous.”

Charles DarwinAuthor of “On the Origin of Species”

Charles Darwin

Author of “On the Origin of Species”

Well, if I’m perfectly honest, he has not said a word about The Old Gray Man.

But I have to believe that he would have liked to.

 

Contact

Feel free to contact me with any questions.

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The Old Gray Man

C/O The Horus Group

2763 Pleasant Road

Suite A 10223

Fort Mill, SC 29708